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Don’t Dream BIG

Hello.. Hi.. Namshakar..

Kaise ho? Sab badhiya?

To aaj yaar ek baat realize hui. 

Agar aap late 80s aur 90s ke baad wali genration hain na to bhai hum sabka kaafi acchi tarah se kaata gaya hain.

Jaise sacred games mein gaitonde ka kata gaya tha na us-se bhi bada wala kata gaya hain.

Main aapko batata hu kaise.

Hume bachpan se lekar abhi tak kya bola gaya hain.

Beta ye karlo ye mil jayega, ye karlo ye mil jayega. Beta BWM loge to hi to successful maane jaoge. Beta itna bada ghar nahi vila honga to hi to successful maane jaoge. 

Aur hum bhi bina kuch soche samje un chizo ke piche bhagne lage jin chizo ko ignore karne ke liye bhi waqt nahi dena chahiye aur yaha hum apni puri ki puri life free mein de dete hain.

Aaj sabko duniya ka sabse paise wala insan ban-na hain. Kyu? Kyu ki paisa hai to sab kuch hain. 

Humko duniya ki sabhi imported gaadi kharidna hai. Kyu? Kyu ki wo cool hain.

(list lambi hain par i think you get the point)

Mainly aaj ki genration paise,fame ke piche itni paagal hoti jaa rahi hain ki apni pair par kulhadi marti jaa rahi hain.

Aur, aaj kal ke maa-baap apne bacho ko naa jaane kin kin classes mein daal dete hain, kabhi dancing, kabhi singing to kabhi sports, aur wo bhi isi liye nahi ki unko sach mein ya unke bacche ko sach mein koi intersted hain. Wo sirf apne bete ya beti ko as tool use karte hain naam aur paisa kamane ke liye.

Sorry to say this but this is true and scary too.

Aaj successful ban-ne ke kitne galat raaste aur example set kiye gaye hai ki aaj ki genration naa chahte hue bhi us trap mein gir hi jaati hain.

Aaj sab cheekh cheekh ke kehte hian DREAM BIG,DREAM BIG but reality mein unka koi dream hota hi nahi hain, wo bas dusro ka fame, paisa dekh ke unke jaise jeena chahte hain aur phir wo use paane ke liye kuch bhi kar dete hain. And this is something we need to change..

And what I realize today is “Apne sapne bade nahi, par apne khud ke hone chahiye

Aur ha sapne bade ya chote nahi hote, sapne khudke ho tohi wo sapne hote hain.

I hope ki aapko is blog se kuch value mili hongi. If you like to share with others please do share, otherwise it’s ok. 🙂 Aapne padha wohi bahut hain.

Aaj ke blog mein itna hi kal milte hain.

Ha aur kya aapka sapna aapka hi hain? Mujhe jawab nahi doge to chalge par khudko jarur dena.

Bye. 🙂 kal milte hian.

UD ki Vani : Perception ke gulaam

Hello hi namaskar

Kasie ho? Sab badhiya?

Aaj ki date hian 08-09-2019

Aaj sunday hain, abhi shaam ho rahi hain to, as usual mann already monday ki chinta mein laga pada hain.

Par aaj maine deicde kar liya tha aaj kuch bhi ek blog to publish karna hi hain, so here I am.

Eiase kuch research ve-search kare bina sidha laptop leakr baith gaya hu, so till this moment mujhe kuch idea nahi hain, ki aaj ki (blog) kis topic par hone wala hain.

Let's think then.

Kya rakhe? Amm…….

Wait still thinking..  

Hold on abhi aa jayega idea.

Tab tak you bhi THINK. Koi idea aaye to let me know here.. 

Ammm.. Topic Topic.. Kya rakhe aaj kaa… 

Got it.

You will love this topic. ( agar tumhara taste kharab hain to i can’t help 😛 )

So topic ka naam hai : Perception in simple Hindi word we can say “nazariya

Abhi mein ek kitaab padh raha hu, jiska naam hain HOW TO SEE by thich nhat hanh

Let me tell you why I chose this topic:

Pehla reason ( koi dusra topic nahi mil raha tha )

Dusra reason : ( Ye book abhi kal hi padhi hain to, sab taza taza hain and kaafi acchi hain, so maine socha ki why not share with you) 

So, perception kya hain aur hum sab iske gulaam kaise hain.

Abhi haal hi ki baat hain, abhi recently ek movie release hui hain jiska naam hain “Chhichore” miane kal hi dekhi it was superb.

But baat movie ki nahi hain, baat hain movie ke review ki.

To hua yu ki…. “ main har roz ki tarah apne main task se distarct hokar twitter pe timepass karne chala gaya, waha kisi ne kisi ke tweet share kiye the. Jisme ek bande ke do alag alag movie ke reviews bataye the. Ab intersting baat ye hain ki usne jis movie ko 4 star diye the out of 5 wo movie bilkul nahi chali infect IMDB ke usi movie ke 2.3 rating hain out of 10, so aap andaza laga sakte ho uski movie review sense ka, abhi dusri intresting baat ye hai ki wohi aadmi ne chhichore movie ke review mein 2 start diye out of 5 aur movie ke kaafi negative points nikal kar bole ab tisri intresting baat ye hain jis movie ko usne 2 start siye the usi movie ko IMDB pe 9.3 rating mile”

Aur chauthi interesting aur funny baat uska account bule tick wala tha.. 

Nahi nahi KRK ka nahi tha wo account.

To isme se ek baat ka realization hua ki humara percption jaisa bhi ho uske wrong prove hone ke baad bhi hum usi pe ade rehte hain. 

Hum sab ne kabhi apne perception ko sahi theharane ke liye na jane kitni mashkkat karte hain par jab use galat saabit kiya jaata hain tab hum use accept karne ki jagah EGO ko lekar baith jaate hain which is not right.

Dusri baat ye ki perction kabhi bhi sahi ya galat nahi hota.

I know ki ye thoda dogla statement hain, par it is true. 

Now that’s my perception about perception. For you shayad koi sense na rakhta ho par i truly believe.

Now jaise hu mein apne perception ko prove karta jauga tum utna hi use defend karna shuru kar donge. Aur end mein wohi news channel ki debete ki tarah ek dusre par chillane lagege aur as uasual koi result nahi aayega.

So what is the solution of this.

To be honest I don’t know the solution. 

In that case, Either I will convince you or you prove that you were right. 

If that happens, it will great but mostly aisa hota nahi, insaan kabhi apna perception nahi badlata agar wo apne EGO ko side mein nahi kar deta.

So is vaani ka niskarsh ye nikalta hain, ki agar tumhe lagta hain ki tumhra perception galat hain to use galat maan lene mein koi burai nahi hain.

Now pura blog likh kar niche wale meme ki yaad aayi. 

😀 That’s all this time. Next blog mein jaldi milte hain. 🙂

Thak gaye ho? To baith jao na thodi der

Ha bhai pata hai tumhe rukna nahi pasand tumhe to zindagi mein raftaar chahiye na.

Par phir bhi baith jao, thoda aaram karlo zindagi rahi to raftar baad mein bhi pakadi jaa sakti hain.

Waise agar meri maano to ye raftaar se behtar hain ki zindagi mein thoda thaharav (ठहराव) bhi hona chahiye tumhra kya kehna hai is baarein mein.

Khair chalo chhodo ye baate. Tum batao kaha jaane ke liye nikle ho itni hadbadi mein.

Ohh.. accha-accha sapna pura karne jaa rahe ho. Kiska par?

Par ye kya, akele akele? Koi saath aaya nahi ki kisiko saath liya nahi?

Khair mujhe us se kya, tumhari zindagi hai tumhe jaise jeeni ho waise jio.

Ha ek baat yaad rakhna agar ye akele safar mein yaadast saath de to warna bhul jana mujhe kya.

To suno, kaafi waqt pehle jab mein bhi waqt ko jeetne bhaag raha tha bilkul tumhare jaise akele, meri raftaar ki vajah se kaafi chize thi jo mujhe mili jo shayad baaki log sirf sapne dekh kar hi khus ho jaate the. par meri usi raftaar ki vajah se maine zindagi ke lamho mein chupi un choti choti chize kabhi dekh hi nahi paaya.

Meri raftaar ne mere ghar walo ko aur apno ko waqt ke naam par sirf intezaar hi diya.

Kitni saari choti choti chize jaise chote bachho ke saath cricket, kanche ya koi game khelna, mummy, papa se unke na hazam hone wale kisse sun na, purane dosto se baate karke wohi purani yaado ke taap se nayi yaadein pakana.

List lambi hai aur zindagi lambi hai waisa hume lagta hai.

Ha bhai ha, mujhe pata hai tum pak gaye ho aur andar hi andar mujhe gaali dena shuru kar diye ho.

Abhi zyada na bolte hue itna hi kahunga, Zindagi jitni raftar mein hai to us se kahi zyda theharav mein chupi hain.

Kabhi raftar se thak jaao to baith kar thaharav (ठहराव) se baat kar lena.

– Udit Rathod

Zindagi, अनिश्चितता aur HUM

kehte hain life ek roller-coaster ki tarah hain, kabhi upper to kabhi niche par jab wo upper aur niche jaane ki bich mein jo time hota hain na, waha sabse zyda fat-ti hain.

Aur zindagi ke roller-coaster ki ek khasiyat ye hai ki aage pata nahi hota ki niche jaane wale hain ya upper; ya phir sidha upper.

Kehte hai ki life ka dusra naam uncertainty (अनिश्चितता) hain.

Agle pal kya honga koi nahi jaanta.

Yahi cheez hum sabko sabse zyada dara ke rakhti hain.

Hum apne hi dimag mein naa jane kitni imagination banakar baithe hote hain aur jab wo cheez sach mein hoti hain tab wo un imagination se ekdum alag hoti hain.

Aur agar wo changes humare comfort ke daayre ke andar hoto hum phir us baat ko let go karne lagte hain, par jab koi change humare  comfort ko touch karta hain tab hum pareshan ho jaate hain, tension mein aa jate hain.

Aur phir se apne bane banaye illusion mein kho jaate hain aur ye cycle yunhi chalti rehti hain jab tak aap us change ko accept nahi kar lete.

To agar aap abhi koi aise change se guzar rahe hain jo appke confort ke bahar hain; to use jitna jaldi ho sake utna jaldi accept kare aur apni imagination ko aise kaam mein lagaye jo aapko help kare naaki aapko ek dari sehmi si duniya mein daal kar aapko faltu ke illusions mein dikahti rehe.

– Udit Rathod